Michelle, Tom, with whom you were posting, was my cousin.
He was in his late 40s or early 50s, but he passed away in the past few years.
I don't want you to lose contact with our family so I will give the info on this thread to my son, Eric.
Eric does genealogy on this side of the family.
He may contact you down the road.
He is just a kid (in his 30s) so is busy with work and family obligations.
Happy Hunting,
Kris