Hi Vikki,
I am going to see a friend this weekend that has just went through the process of obtaining a marker for his ancestor. In fact he will be placing it on the grave next weekend. If you have any further questions about the process of getting a marker, I'll ask him how he did it and pass on the information. I obtained one back in the mid 70's from the UDC for my ggrandfather, and it was easy then, but no telling what has changed since.
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